How do you know when it’s time to move and when it’s time to wait?
In this message from the Hands Free series, we wrestle with one of the most common tensions in the life of faith – discerning the difference between wisdom and fear. When clarity feels partial and the stakes feel high, it is easy to freeze, overthink, or assume we are doing something wrong spiritually. But Scripture offers a different picture of discernment, one that is relational, responsive, and rooted in trust rather than certainty.
We reframe discernment as more of a dance with God rather than a test to pass. Instead of demanding a roadmap, we learn how Scripture sets a rhythm that shapes the way we move. Instead of being spun out by circumstances, we discover how God’s unchanging character keeps us grounded. And instead of trying to figure everything out alone, we are reminded that community plays a vital role in helping us stay in step when fear distorts our perspective.
If you missed the live service or want to reflect further, you can watch the full message above anytime after. We’ve also included discussion questions to dig deeper into the message and a handout with fill-ins to guide your reflection. You can find the handout by clicking the “Download” button above. Whether you watch this on your own or share it with your small group, we hope this message encourages you.
Discussion Questions
- How do you usually tell the difference between wisdom and fear when both seem reasonable in the moment?
- Where do you notice yourself most often asking God for certainty when He may be inviting you to take a faithful step instead?
- In your own words, what does it look like for Scripture to shape how you move, not just what you decide?
- Can you think of a recent decision where peace acted more like a referee than a feeling of comfort?
- When life feels like it is spinning, what do you tend to grab onto first to steady yourself?
- Which parts of God’s character are easiest for you to trust when things feel uncertain, and which are harder to lean into?
- Who currently has permission to speak honestly into your decisions, especially when fear might be involved?
- What makes it difficult to invite community into discernment before you feel confident about a decision?
- How do you know when you are pulling your hand away from God’s lead rather than staying close enough to feel His guidance?
- What is one decision or situation this week where you could practice trusting the rhythm instead of demanding the roadmap?
